the perfect wedding dress

There is so much excitement and anticipation when it comes to planning a wedding. There are also a multitude of details to arrange and decisions that have to be made by both the bride and the groom. One of the most important and personal decisions a bride must make is to choose the wedding dress she will wear, to make her walk down the aisle to join her groom at the altar.

While the bride and groom are really the proper center of attention on the big day, it is natural and customary for the bride to be a bit more in the spotlight and the bridal dress that she chooses in many ways sets the tone for the whole day. At the same time, the wedding gown very much serves as the frame around the bride and should serve to beautify her and highlight her very best features.

It goes without saying that the wedding dress must not distract the eye in any way from the beauty of the bride. Often, this can be a challenging balance to achieve, but if the bride has enough patience and also can rely on the assistance of a bridal consultant, then the right bridal gown will be found.

There are many stories of brides who had so much difficulty choosing a wedding gown that they ended up being completely frustrated or reduced to tears. At times, it is just the sheer number of choices, trying to meet deadlines, and trying to stay within a budget that causes the difficulty. Other times, it can happen when a well-meaning friend or family member tries to impose their own idea of the perfect wedding dress on the bride.

This is a situation where a bridal consultant can be very helpful. Since they are a third party, and usually on staff at most wedding dress shops, they can offer an objective perspective and opinion about a wedding dress that will be perfect. They can also help the bride to have the courage to stand up for her preferences and decisions and can calm down situations that begin to spiral out of control.

Because there are so many choices in designs and styles from which a bride can choose to find the perfect bridal dress for her special day, it is best to set aside as much time as possible for shopping for the wedding gown and for the wedding gown accessories. First, there needs to be sufficient time to review the many options available. Second, time needs to be set aside for trying on sample gowns. Third, if the bridal dress is going to be a special order or custom tailored, then there must be time allowed for that as well.

When selecting the wedding dress, it is also important to think about more than just the look and style of the dress. Also consider the setting where the wedding will take place and think about comfort. While every bride wants to look stunning for her wedding day, being comfortable will also help to ensure that she enjoys the day as much as possible.

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I guess that’s not fair.  They DO care how they look, they just choose to look like a cartoon character or superhero.  Sure.  Why not?  I mean, if you’re going to do it, do it right.  Make sure people remember it.  Make sure, for instance, that they remember that you came to your wedding dressed as Wonder Woman, and that your groom dressed like Batman.

Holy Are-You-Kidding Me, Batman!

Lucky for these folks, both Batman and Wonder Woman were  part of Justice League of America in The Brave and the Bold #28, otherwise we’d take issue.  We already have to overlook the fact that these wackadoos were attended by Robin (that’s OK), the Joker (WTF?), Yoda (Come on, now), The Incredibles (Really?), Iron Man, Poison Ivy, and The Incredible Hulk (MARVEL COMICS, HELLO?!?!?!)   The bridesmaids came dressed in PowerPuff Girls costumes.  Oh, the humanity.  Step all over those of who who LIKE comic books, why don’t you?

Or, take these folks, who decided to kick it old, old, old, old school.

Yabba Dabba...oh whatever.

They actually said, “I yabba dabba do” in their vows.  Oh the sweet injustice of it all.  At least these people were purist.  The bride was attended by Betty Rubble, Barney Rubble stood up as best man, the children attendants were dressed as Bamm-Bamm, and the guests all dressed as cavemen.  Er, cave people.  My, my.

This one is the real kicker, though.  What would the cleaning bills cost to get all that GREEN PAINT off the wedding dress?

Really?

I get it that you saw Shrek on your first date.  I get that you liked it.  I liked it too.  A lot.  I watch it pretty often still.  But what on earth did your mother say when you told her you wanted to paint yourself completely green and wear fake ears on your wedding day?  Did she cry?  I kind of did, when I heard about this.  And the groom.  He’s 53!  Did he just not give a crap?  And what’s with the clown character in the back?  Are you TRYING to give me a heart attack?

Oh well, right?  As long as they are happy, that is what matters….

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